In Singapore
today, a recent estimate shows that there are about one million single men and ladies. Why are there so many
singles today?
The common reason is
that
these single men are focusing their time, energies on work,
material pursuits and worldly successes. Everyday, you and I will often
face a lot of challenging issues in
our lives that require our full attention such
as work related matters, personal matters, matters from family and
friends, etc. Therefore, you have to learn to strive a proper
balance so as to find the time you would need to seek
a
compatible marriage partner.
You have all along
been thinking seriously about MARRIAGE
and have already decided that you do want to get married in your life
time, you must ask yourself one
important question right now.
Are
you ready to look for a compatible marriage partner right now?
A
single Singaporean man in his early thirties should be focused on MARRIAGE, or working toward being able to focus on
marriage. He is already past the stage in his life in which he has to
sort out his life goals and family values, acquire an education, begin
a career, and enjoy a period of self-responsibility and self-indulgence
-
all the usual reasons for single people who are contemplating marriage.
Personally, I
do not agree that a person has to accomplish all of these things in
order to be ready for marriage, but I do strongly believe that before
thinking about marriage, a person should have a clear idea of his life
goals and family values and be ready to share responsibilities with a
spouse.
As
I have learnt through my positive matchmaking experiences with single
Singaporean men, the earlier a person focus on his
marriage, the
easier it becomes for him to
be able to form a relationship that leads to marriage. They are able to
open up to
someone else, and engage in the give-and-take that marriage
requires. This enable them to pursue promising relationships.
That is why
I encourage people who would
someday like to get married to work on being able to focus on this goal
when they are in their twenties and early thirties. It is so much
easier to achieve that goal during this period than later.
Another
reason why I encourage marriage
is that more Singaporean men will achieve a strong sense of
satisfaction in many areas of life, and they will foster continuity in
the process. It is worthwhile to note that besides
the comfortable lifestyles, advanced degrees, luxury cars, six figure
salaries, executive suites or well-funded retirement accounts that so
many people believe they must achieve, your marriage shall
ultimately be the most fulfilling
experience of your lifetime.
When you
decided that you truly want to
focus on marriage at this point in your life, I believe you should
become proactive. You have to take positive steps toward achieving your
goal.
The good news is that
for single career men like yourself who have already decided
that you have very limited success in finding a
potential life marriage partner of your choice through dating, I strongly believe that you've got to change your approach and make getting married--to the right marriage partner-- your priority. When you partner with Blissful Marriage Consultants, you have the opportunity to meetcompatible, attractive, virtuous and family
oriented Hainan ladies
through our Professional Matchmaking and
Marriage Services.
In conclusion, it is
worth remembering that
finding a compatible marriage partner should take on the importance
that a job search would take. Take responsibility
for your own personal
happiness today!
In Singapore
today, a recent estimate shows that there are about one million single men and ladies. Why are there so many
singles today?